Ok, this might not technically be a DIY but I found a way to control the water flow rate when trying to take shots of water drops with macro (or whatever lens you use). It's going to be a little...odd...but hear me out.
All the water drop tutorials I had read either used a bag that you stuck a hole in-and then had uncontrolled drops, or a high tech system that costs mucho dollars to build. Being horribly cheap like I am, I went to a Medical Supply Store and bought a feeding tube kit. It is perfect for the occasion. The bag has a plastic screw cap made into the top made for refilling...water. The key is the tubing at the bottom. It has a thumb valve to allow you to control the flow of the water, from a full stream to a drop every few seconds (or whatever time you wish). Just scroll the wheel with your thumb to the desired rate. The tubing is way too long right out of the box but I cut mine down to a small section and it worked the very first time. MUCH better than sticking a hole in a bag of water that, once started, can't be stopped. The bags in the tutorials are one time uses too. This setup is reusable. Total cost at the medical supply place was $3.54. Your milage may vary though.
(ok, the DIY part was cutting the tubing down to size, hows that?)